A Reconnect Coaching journey
Reconnect at the highest level™
Twelve months full repositioning. For high achievers and their partners who want to be able to be themselves again, within a relationship that grows with the level at which they live and function.
12 months
A complete programme, not individual sessions. Depth is given the time it requires.
Both partners
Individual and joint guidance. Focusing on the relationship and the underlying dynamics.
1-on-1 I-Positioning
Exclusively within this path. Complete repositioning of who you are.
Perfectly aligned
On your agenda and location. Online or on-site, moving with your reality.
Utmost discretion
For whom privacy, reputation and confidentiality are essential. NDA possible.
On all layers at once
Not just to the relationship. Also to identity, leadership, and performing under pressure.
Relationships at this level require another level of guidance.
Many high achievers initially think they want to repair their relationship. However, what used to work often no longer does. Reconnect at the highest level™ is therefore not about going back.
It's not a standard relationship trajectory. No fixed sessions. No superficial communication exercises. It's not a programme where you have to adapt yourselves to a method. It's completely tailor-made, aligned with your lives, your responsibilities, your workload, and your reality.
What this trajectory is not
- A standard relationship trajectory with fixed steps
- A fixed frequency or standard structure
- Superficial communication exercises
- Adapting to a method
- Going back to how it used to be
What this trajectory offers
- Fully customised around your schedule and reality
- Working on all levels simultaneously: identity, relationship, functioning
- A relationship that grows with ambition and responsibility
- Connection without losing yourself
- Building who you have become today
We are working on all layers simultaneously. Not only to the relationship itself.
How you've become under pressure.
How you function within responsibility.
How you are present as a partner.
Why connection disappears while love is still there.
How to reconnect without losing yourself.
How success and connection can coexist.
Four foundations that you nowhere loose finds again.
Both partners, individually and together
You work 1-on-1, together as partners, and on the full dynamic between identity, relationship, and functioning. Sustainable connection arises when both can be fully themselves.
1-on-1 I-Positioning
A profound individual journey exploring who you truly are under pressure, how you position yourself, and which patterns undermine your connection. Not superficial coaching, but complete repositioning.
Fully aligned with your reality
Sessions around your agenda, flexible switching when needed, online or on-site, intensifying during moments of crisis. No fixed frequency, no standard structure.
Utmost discretion
For individuals for whom privacy, reputation and confidentiality are essential. NDA possible. Full discretion in guidance, communication and course format.
The four phases of Reconnect at the highest level™
There are no fixed steps that everyone goes through in the same way. Instead, it's a profound process in which you move step by step from tension, distance, and survival towards clarity, connection, and a relationship that works again. Built around four foundations: insight, acceptance, repositioning, and integration.
Make visible
Who have you become under pressure?
- Mapping what's really happening beneath the surface
- Recognising constantly repeating patterns
- See where connection is lost
- Understanding how work and responsibility permeate dynamics
Acceptance and de-escalation
Understanding what you do to each other under pressure.
- Stop fighting symptoms
- Recognising how escalations arise and which pain points are affected
- To see how distance or control arises
- To understand what's happening underneath behaviour, from insight rather than blame
Herpositionering
Learning to reconnect without losing yourself.
- Relational safety and mature communication under pressure
- Honesty without escalation, boundaries without distance
- Proximity without control
- To be completely yourself without losing connection
Top-level integration
A relationship that grows with your life.
- Stability under pressure and a sustainable connection
- Leadership within relationships and families
- Presence without emotional exhaustion
- A relationship that gives energy instead of taking it
It I-Position Profiel™
No personality test. No theoretical profile. A deep, confidential positioning document that reveals how you operate under pressure, how you maintain or lose connection, and what you need to remain fully yourself without creating distance.
It is built up during the process from individual sessions, relational observation, communication analysis, and behaviour during stress and conflict. Both partners build their own profile.
I-Position Profile™
What the document reveals
- Who you are under pressure
- How you communicate under pressure
- What makes you close, check, or escalate
- How you protect yourself
- What you need to stay connected
- What patterns undermine your relationship
- Where you lost yourself along the way.
Clients don't just feel the difference at home. But in how they live and lead.
Under pressure
Functioning more clearly and making sharper decisions when tension rises.
Home
To be more present, with connection that feels safe rather than draining.
In communication
Communicate differently during tension, without escalation or withdrawal.
In leadership
Stable leadership from a place of calm, clarity, and connection.
In energy
See which relationships cost energy and which ones give energy.
In yourself
Experiencing yourself differently within work and life. Real change is never solely relational.
Not going back to the past. But building a relationship and a way of life that matches who you have become today.
Because relationships at this level cannot continue to exist on old patterns. They demand mature repositioning.
What you want to know before you begin.
What is Reconnect at the Highest Level™? +
Reconnect at the Highest Level™ is an exclusive 12-month tailor-made programme for high-level performers and their partners. It focuses not only on relationship repair, but on a complete repositioning of how both partners function under pressure, communicate, connect, and show up within their relationship, work, and life. Both partners work individually 1-on-1 and together on a relationship that grows with the level at which they live and perform.
Who is the highest level Reconnect™ intended for? +
The programme is intended for entrepreneurs, executives, leaders and other high-level professionals who feel that the pressure of work, responsibility and ambition is starting to impact their relationships, energy and overall functioning. These are often people who:
- to bear a lot of responsibility
- turn out to be difficult
- to continue functioning strongly outwardly
- but at home increasingly experiencing distance, tension or exhaustion
It is intended for couples who feel that going back to the way things used to be no longer works, but who want to build a relationship that suits who they have become today.
What makes this different from relationship therapy? +
Reconnect at the highest level™ goes beyond traditional relationship therapy. We don't just work on communication or conflict, but on:
- identity under pressure
- relational dynamics
- operating within responsibilities
- Patterns that undermine connection
- Emotional safety
- presence in relationships and leadership
Both partners will receive individual guidance and joint guidance. The programme is entirely tailored and adapted to the agendas, workload, and the reality of high-level performers.
What is the I-Position Profile™? +
The I-Position Profiel™ is an exclusive personal positioning document that both partners receive during Phase 1 of the journey. The profile shows:
- how you function under pressure
- how you communicate under pressure
- What causes you to close, check, or escalate
- how you maintain or lose connection
- What patterns influence your relationship
- how responsibility translates into your behaviour
It is not a standard test or analysis. The document is built entirely from individual sessions, observations, relational dynamics, and functioning under pressure.
What does the 12-month trajectory look like? +
Reconnect at the highest level™ consists of four phases:
- Phase 1 — Making visible. Gaining insight into patterns, functioning under pressure, and relational dynamics. Including the I-Position Profile™.
- Phase 2 — Acceptance & de-escalation. Understanding why patterns emerge and learning to regulate tension differently.
- Phase 3 — Repositioning. Developing new ways of communicating, connecting, and being present.
- Phase 4 – Highest level integration. Embedding the changes in relationships, leadership, family, and daily functioning.
Will both partners receive individual guidance? +
Yes. Within Reconnect at the highest level™, both partners work:
- one-to-one
- together as partners
- and the full interplay between identity, relationships and functioning
It is precisely this combination that makes the journey unique. A lasting connection is not formed when people keep changing themselves or losing themselves, but when both partners can be completely themselves without losing that connection.
Is the programme fully customised? +
Yes. Reconnect at the highest level™ is fully aligned with:
- Agendas
- Workload
- responsibilities
- family situation
- Travel requirements
- crisis moments
- intensity of the situation
There is no fixed, standard structure or frequency. The trajectory moves with the reality of the lives of high-level performers.
Is online guidance possible? +
Yes. Reconnect at the highest level™ is largely guided online, making the journey flexibly deployable for entrepreneurs, executives, and professionals with busy schedules. Sessions can also take place on-site where necessary.
Is full discretion possible? +
Yes. Discretion is an essential part of Reconnect at the Highest Level™. For clients for whom privacy, reputation or confidentiality are important, coaching is available under an NDA. All communication and coaching are treated as strictly confidential.
What are the specific benefits of the programme? +
After completing the programme, clients often notice a difference in:
- Communication under pressure
- Emotional safety
- focus and decision-making
- at home
- Energy and stress regulation
- relationship stability
- Leadership
- connection with oneself and each other
Many clients also find that the relationship no longer drains their energy, but once again becomes a stable foundation for their work, family and life.
What if there is infidelity or a relationship crisis? +
Reconnect on the highest level™ can also be used when there is:
- Adultery
- breach of trust
- emotional distance
- escalations
- doubts about the relationship
- prolonged stress
In acute situations, the focus is often first on stabilisation and de-escalation before further repositioning takes place.
Is this programme suitable if one partner has reservations? +
Yes, provided both partners are willing to honestly examine their own patterns, behaviour, and position within the relationship. The process does not focus on blame or being right, but on understanding what is happening beneath the surface and how both partners can learn to reconnect without losing themselves.
How much does Reconnect at the highest level™ cost? +
Reconnect op het hoogste niveau™ is an exclusive 12-month bespoke programme. The investment will be tailored to the intensity, guidance, and format of the programme. As each programme is entirely bespoke, a personal consultation will determine what is needed for your situation.
How does the process start? +
The process begins with a personal consultation during which we will look at:
- the current dynamics
- the impact on relationships and functioning
- the goals of both partners
- the intensity of the situation
- wat nodig is om duurzame verandering mogelijk te maken
From there, it is determined whether Reconnect at the highest level™ is appropriate.
Begin by a Confidential Connect call
We'll look at whether Reconnect at the highest level™ is a good fit for where you are now. Completely discreet, with no obligation to start the programme.
Utmost discretion · NDA possible · Online or on-site